Top 10 Questions Families Ask About Cremation Urns (And Honest Answers)
When a loved one passes, families are faced with many unfamiliar decisions—especially when it comes to cremation and choosing an urn. Whether you're planning ahead or making arrangements during a time of grief, having clear, compassionate answers can ease the process.
In this guide, we’ll address the top questions families ask about cremation urns—including urn types, sizes, materials, and more—so you can make an informed, confident choice.
1. What size urn do I need?
The size of an urn depends on the person's body weight before cremation. A general rule of thumb:
1 pound of body weight = 1 cubic inch of urn space
Standard adult urns usually hold 180–220 cubic inches, which accommodates most adults. For individuals over 220 lbs, oversized or companion urns may be better suited.
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2. What are the different types of cremation urns?
There are several types of urns to choose from, depending on your needs:
Adult Urns: Full-size, meant for one person's ashes
Keepsake Urns: Small urns for sharing ashes among family
Companion Urns: Designed for two individuals
Scattering Urns: Made for easy scattering of ashes
Pet Urns: Sized specifically for animal companions
Biodegradable Urns: Eco-friendly options for burial or water release
Each type is available in various materials, including metal, wood, ceramic, glass, and biodegradable paper.
3. Can we split the ashes among family members?
Yes. This is a common and meaningful choice. Many families purchase multiple keepsake urns or cremation jewelry so that each person can carry a portion of the ashes in a personal way.
4. Can we take an urn home?
Absolutely. There are no legal restrictions on keeping an urn in your home. Many people choose to display urns on mantels, shelves, or in private memorial areas.
Just ensure the urn is secure and sealed, especially if there are pets or children in the home.
5. Are urns required for cremated remains?
No, an urn is not legally required, but a container is needed to hold the ashes. Funeral homes or crematories typically return ashes in a temporary plastic container unless you purchase an urn.
Many families choose a permanent urn to:
Create a lasting memorial
Display at home
Prepare for burial, niche, or scattering
6. How are urns sealed?
Most urns come with a threaded or sealed lid. Some can be permanently sealed with adhesive or wax. If you're transporting or mailing ashes, make sure the urn is TSA- or USPS-compliant (ask your urn provider for help with this).
7. Can we travel or fly with an urn?
Yes, but there are regulations. For air travel, TSA requires that:
The urn can be X-rayed (materials like wood or plastic are best)
The contents are clearly identifiable as cremated remains
It’s packed securely in a carry-on, not checked luggage
For mailing ashes, use the USPS and request their Cremated Remains Kit.
8. Can we personalize or engrave an urn?
Yes, many urns can be engraved with names, dates, quotes, or symbols. Personalization adds a meaningful touch and is available on wood, metal, and even glass urns.
9. What if we plan to scatter the ashes later?
You can temporarily store the ashes in any urn or container. Many families use a scattering urn when the time comes, or transfer from a full-size urn to a biodegradable one for the ceremony.
10. How much do cremation urns cost?
Urn prices vary by size, material, and craftsmanship. On average:
Keepsake urns: $20–$75
Adult urns: $60–$300
Custom/handmade urns: $200–$1,000+
Biodegradable urns: $50–$150
There are quality options for every budget. Don't be afraid to ask questions or compare materials.
Final Thoughts
Cremation urns are more than containers—they’re a way to honor and preserve the memory of a loved one. Understanding the most common questions families ask can help you make choices rooted in love, meaning, and practicality.
If you’re still unsure which urn is right for your needs, our team is here to help with compassion and expertise.
